Impotence is a erectile dysfunction, usually refers to sexual stimulation and sexual situations, or the erection of the penis can not be strong erection, erection time is short, and soon the soft reduction, which can not be with the complete sex life. Impotence in the self-judgment that people can easily fall into seven errors.
In fact, the definition of impotence that need to make the following points:
First, this stimulus must be from the spouse's full of stimulation; Second, it should be truly able to complete intercourse to determine whether; Third, married couples must be at least 2.3 months of running, there are experience of sexual life further evaluation; Fourth, any extra-marital sex will bring on Judgement bias.
If a deviation from these principles, it is prone to self-judgment of the errors, to put it on the label of impotence, from spiritual shackles put on and recover.
When people in self-judgment is easy to fall into impotence following errors:
1, the early marriage, sexual intercourse several times failed as impotence.
This situation is quite common, in fact, is a violation of the beginning of sexual life between the spouses must have 23 months after the running of the principle. Wedding at the beginning, especially the wedding night, too excited, tired, or even drunk; or because of lack of cooperation between the newly married couple stages, causes temporary erectile dysfunction. Originally, it is not surprising things. A few poor couple intercourse is tried to steal the forbidden fruit before marriage, at the time to explore, experiment, tension, fear, and other complex feelings to act high failure rate, so in my mind to leave the shadow of his sexual incompetence. This situation should have a sexual intercourse in marriage adjustment stage.
2, does not cause the woman to orgasm and erotic pleasure as impotence.
This is the biggest mistake, as long as man can erect penis and home, as long as the man moves smoothly through the completion of ejaculation and sexual desire to reach orgasm, it is not impotence, even with the sexual pleasure appears. One of the features male and female sexual function that is "male fast women slow", so the man who has ejaculation, the woman has not yet into the human orgasm, which is a physiological phenomenon, at best, not a harmonious sexual life issues should never be considered as impotence.
3, that masturbation is bound to cause impotence.
More common in unmarried young people, sex is a common understanding of the error. Needless to say, masturbation is a common behavior of young people, there are some concerns about masturbation induced impotence, anyone really happened afterwards impotence. But modern medicine has stated that the occurrence of such impotence, in essence, is not due to masturbation damaged the organ, but rather the long-term spiritual and psychological factors masturbation lead to trouble. In fact, masturbation is very complex mental activities, often in anxiety, guilt, depression, anxiety, this kind of unhealthy thinking hampers the normal functioning of sexual function. However, even a long-term masturbation, as long as the above can lift the spirit of "lump", it may not happen impotence.
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